Fetish guide: Fetish Guide Conclusion

Conclusion

It appears that many of the fetishes have some childhood reference, so perhaps our childhood is where fetishes originate.

As children we were helpless individuals and powerless and making mistakes is a natural progression of becoming an adult – this was how you learnt about life and how to develop within it.

However, everyone has to grow up into adulthood and learn to be responsible for oneself, and if you make mistakes you have to take responsibility for your actions and deal with the consequences, and as you grow older you may settle whether it be within the work place or the family and you then have people who are dependent upon you.

However, sometimes and I’m sure this applies to most people, don’t you just want someone else to take the reins and go back to being a child when people looked after you and you didn’t have all this responsibility!

Well, it is perhaps this where most fetishes stem from, the fetish is used as a prop to try and escape, the sexual reference of this prop is what provides the release that is desired.

Everyone needs some sort of release from the stressful times that we live in, and for some sex with their partner which reaches orgasm gives that momentary release where you feel out of control and have that feeling of ecstasy.

However, we’re not all the same, people have different desires, different needs based upon their own personal lives and the social forces placed upon them.

Yes not all of us choose to have a fetish but this doesn’t make those who do abnormal, it’s a coping device, something that everyone needs and as long as the choice of fetish is safe and is not harmful, it’s ok.

We are individuals and what suits one person may not suit another, we are unique, and if you have a fetish or desire one, embrace it because it’s yours!