Get him to use his mouth

OK ladies. Admit it.  Oral sex is the best thing since chocolate, and getting your partner to use his mouth a bit more is going to give you a whole lot of erotic fun!

Some women have said that they don’t enjoy oral sex, and other reply with a shocked reply of How Can You Not!

The biggest reason for not enjoying oral sex is probably anxiety and we probably obsess too much about the way we look – after all, your partner doesn’t have eyes in their tongue do they?  Also, please remember that models in porn do have work done “down there” including lipsuction, bleaching and even make up – it’s not really how things look in the flesh.

So, how do you get him to use his mouth more?

The easiest way is tell him!  When he licks and tastes you, tell him how good it feels, and flatter him at his technique.  Everyone loves priaze and a great oral sex session will be a huge turn-on for him too, especially when he knows how much you’re enjoying it.

And the second biggest anxiety about oral sex will be hygiene.  And this is an important one.  The vagina is a self cleaning organ and should not be douched, or sprayed with perfumes or deodorants – and think about it, those chemicals probably taste a lot worse than your own pheromone filled natural smells anyway.  By all means take a shower or bath before hand but don’t risk your intimate health for the sake of smelling like the chemists shop.  Natural is best.