How to eat out more healthily
Whilst some find the subject of oral sex taboo, for many or most couples, oral sex is an essential part of a satisfying love life.
Both giving and receiving oral sex can be highly arousing for both partners, so then it really is a win-win activity.
Play safe and rubber up the right way
If you have just recently met a new partner and are unsure of their sexual history then safe sex is essential. You can perform oral sex on a guy when he is wearing a condom and on a girl if you use a dental dam as a sheath. The latex is very thin and sensation really isn’t lost – try it.
The latex may not taste great; or very sexy – so manufacturers have kindly provided us with flavoured condoms and dental dams. From vanilla, blueberry and chocolate to strawberry and mint, you’re sure to find one that tickles your taste buds. The same range is available in dental dams too so that the ladies don’t miss out. There is now even a new range of tropical flavoured condoms!
If you don’t have a dental dam, simply cut a condom so it becomes one sheet of material and use that.
Gagging for it?
If you perform oral sex on a guy and he hits the back of your throat, then your gag reflex will naturally react. This is natural and can be overcome with practise, but is very unpleasant for the giver and probably not very sexy to watch either. If you find you have a gagging reflex when he is just in your mouth normally try breathing through your nose as that can help.
So guys – no head-pushing or holding – it’s strictly for the porn films.
Stay in your comfort zone
Sometimes the repeated motion and awkward angles of giving oral sex gives you neck strain so have a firm pillow handy to prop your partner up or your neck up!
If your jaw aches when pleasuring a guy, alternate sucking motions with licking and teasing to give you a rest and him an erotic variety show.
Get tongue tied
Use your tongue very softly at first, whether you are performing for a male or female partner – and judge their reaction when you try it a bit firmer. Ask them what they like as you’re doing it, that encouragement adds excitement too and gives you the perfect instruction so you know how to do it.
Stay smooth
Hairs in your teeth or worse in the throat isn’t very sexy! Performing on a women is nicer if she’s trimmed or shaved, but if not, or if you have one in the mouth just pause and say so – don’t ignore it or you may cough!
Make it sensational
To add a bit more zing to the oral-sex-thing, try using some tingle strips specially designed for oral sex, such as Strip Tease Hers or Sweet Throat, they contain special zingy properties that are just the job.
Taking it all in
Swallowing genital fluids is totally safe providing neither partner has an infection. Some people like to swallow semen, many do not. It’s all about personal taste, you can usually tell when he’s about to come so you can avoid it just at the right moment if you wish.
Sometimes after eating strong foods, the taste will come through in semen, when he has eaten lots of meat, spicy food and so on.
