How to use a condom, properly

How to use a condom properly, hints and tips for safe and fun condom use

If you’re using condoms as protection for unwanted pregnancy or against Sexually Transmitted Infections, these guidelines will help you ensure you are using the condom properly to reduce the likelihood of the condom splitting or coming off.

This article deals with the use of male condoms.

Latex condoms are made with very thin latex to minimise the loss of sensation for both partners, and for those with latex allergies, you can also buy polyurethane condoms.

• Put the condom on before the penis touches the vagina, anus or mouth
• Open the packet at the corner, and don’t use your teeth to open the pack in case you break the condom inside
• Hold the condom by its tip, this squeezes out the air, but leave some space at the tip to hold the ejaculate
• If you are not circumsised, pull back the foreskin before rolling the condom on, then once the shaft is covered, push the foreskin forward, to allow the condom to move without breaking the condom
• Unroll the condom all the way over the erect penis
• Ensure condom is not inside out
• Use a fresh condom every time you have sex, or if you re inserting into a new body part, e.g. in the anus then in the vagina
• If you have long nails be careful, think of it like putting on some delicate silk stockings!
• Never use oil based lubricants or gunk as these can damage the condom
• Always choose condom safe lubricants that will enhance the pleasure for both partners, and help avoid friction that can lead to condoms tearing
• When removing the condom, hold its in place when withdrawing, so it doesn’t come off
• Buy condoms made by reputable manufacturers such as Durex, Pasante and Skins and check the use-by date pripr to use. Out of date condoms can be dry causing them to split.

Using condoms can be fun. Don’t think of them as a chore, but as an additional passage in your foreplay. Considering the protection they are giving you both, they allow for more enjoyable sex by preventing anxiety and worries about unwanted pregnancy or STI’s (sexually transmitted infection).