Why use sex toys?
If you don’t use sex toys, you are missing out on a lot of fun. Think of them as different cuisines that can spice up your life. Just as different herbs add interest to your meal, different shapes, sizes and colours add variety and interest to your lovemaking, whether it’s solo play or with a partner.
Sex toys are not a replacement for a partner. But, during times when you are alone sex toys can be therapeutic, and as we all know, sex is good for you.
Sex toys are a positive addition to your sex life. For women a clitoral vibrator can help reach an orgasm much more effortlessly and quicker than manual or oral stimulation (although sex is much nicer and more fun if you combine them all when with a partner).
A dildo or insert able vibrator helps simulate the sex act and partners often love using them on you or even watching you use them! For men, cock rings help facilitate and enhance erections and many men also enjoy the feeling of a vibrator used on them whilst with a partner. There are also many styles of masturbator for men that are fun for when he is without his partner.
Society’s reluctance to say that sexual pleasure is OK inhibited some couples from ever daring to take the plunge and buy sex toys. Think of all the fun they have missed out on! Why should anyone miss out on fun?
Using sex toys is normal. And not using sex toys is normal – it is a matter of mutual preference.
For advice on choosing the right toy for you, please ask. Or for further reading visit our sex toys department and click on guides – where every type of toy and sex aid is explained.
